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Changi Park Song: Ai Ni Bu Shi Liang Shan Tian,
Eyes On Me,
B.A.D - Wo De Chuo,
The Reason Show: Qian Li You Hun
Hate: Foods Vegetable, Grape(pu tao)
People Backstabbers!
Liars!
Description: I'm a man that speaks with Integrity. Once I promise
anyone anything, I'll really mean it and I'll do it no matter what happened. A
Person with lots of passion. I'm a Sagittarius, that means I love traveling!
My Quote: Never do anything that you will regret! Leave no regret in life!
Fav Qoute: Bonds are really created when people are suffering together!
Love Qoute: Letting go is also a form of showing your love to someone
- Final Fantasy Collections (unlimited)
*Online Final Fantasy
Goals In Life
It's weird indeed. That I'll like to set my goal in life all of a sudden. Maybe
it's the influence of my friends, that life is required to be planned ahead. I use
to believe that life have too many uncertainty as one would just die any day. I also believe
that things and people around you changes everyday, so as your goal in life. Therefore,
I never consisted thinking too far ahead. But, after further thinking, why not just
assume that life have no tripping stones, and plan ahead! I'll not lost anything
anyway...
19 - 20 Complete My Studies In Poly
20 - 22 Complete My NS
22 - 25 Further Education
Join Basketball Club
25 - 30 Work
30 Getting Married
31 Travel Around The World
32 - 35 Starts A Business
<<40 Father of 2
<<65 Emigrate To Australia/New Zealand
I think I have think way too ahead. That's not my style, but it won't hurt just by thinking, right?
Last Update: 23/08/2005
Dreams
* Travel Around The World
* Become A Splendid Basketball Player [Point Guard / Center Guard]
* Have Wings like An Angel
* Sky Diving
Thursday, July 26, 2007.
Happiness
What a topic! My definition of a happy life is to lead a simple life the way I want.
Different people have different definition of simple. My definition would be just the way I want. How do I want it? I guess I don’t have a plan to it. Leading a life planned in advance is kind of tiring. By the age of 25, get a degree. Fight for my career for 5 years and get married. Have 2 children. Retire by the age of 50. This is too much for me to handle, seriously!
I would prefer my simple life as simply as just to live the moments. I’ll enjoy what I have and not ask for more. I’ll do what I want for what I can. I’ll live my life with no expectation. This is what I believe of a simple life.
In modern context, such a life is closed to impossible and unrealistic, but I would like to believe this is what I want. So far, this is the kind of life that I’m living in.
Sometimes, it makes me wonder. Living a life with no expectation, somehow or another, slow downs my pace. Looking at the people around me, even the ones that are younger than me, everyone had moved on, into their next phrase of their life. Picking up their pace to suit and fit into the moving society, while I’m still walking at my own comfortable pace, looking at each one of them running pass me and ahead of me. Yes! It starts to make me worried. Although I’m somewhat concerned and worried, I’m not moving. That is because I believe that the simple life that I always wanted does not require me to move at that pace. I believe that when you are moving at such a fast tempo, you will miss out the precious moments of your life and neglect your love ones. I will like to hold true to what I believe.
A Chinese phrase should best describe what I want. 笑看世界. To add on, I would like to 笑看世界 with the woman I love. I also believe this is the main reason that I’m starting to worry.
Why do I say so? Can you name another person that have such a mentality, and to be more exact, another women that have such a mentality?
Having say so much, I didn’t really say what I want for a simple life. It’s not an expectation but a vision of what I will like to have. Share all the moments with the woman I love by my side. We’ll be living in a flat with just simple furniture just sufficient for daily necessity. I’ll be working in an office / environment with minimum commitment so that I will have the spare time to spend with my family. That’s about all that I’ll like to ask for, any thing else extra, it will be just bonus and I’ll be more than happy. =)
